Thirteen is one of my favorite numbers. I’m excited to see what 2013 will bring.
I don’t do resolutions, because I know I won’t keep them. I
have 13 goals for 2013 that I hope I can achieve, or come close to accomplishing.
No clothes. On New Year's Eve I put the three laundry baskets
from my bedroom and the two laundry baskets already in the laundry room in the
hallway. I took a picture. I sent the picture to my sister and to a friend so
they could shame me. I do not need any new clothes. I need a black cardigan or
wrap style sweater but that is the only thing I actually need. My closet is overflowing. No clothes just
because they are fun. They need a function.
Be kissed. I made it all the way through 2012 without a
kiss. I’ve been greeted with hugs and a kiss on the cheek but no real kisses
since October of 2011. Maybe in 2013 I will either go through the random muckout
phase my friends went through in college or I’ll go on a date and give a good
night kiss.
Shoes are okay. I have flat feet, which exacerbate my knee
injuries, which in turn lead to my hip problems. I need brown boots and black
boots. I need flats that I can be on my feet in while still providing support.
I have yet to find any flats with adequate support that don’t look like they
are worn exclusively in Fort Myers but I am going to keep on looking.
Career improvements. I love my job. But I need to be
realistic and decide if the sacrifices I have made to have a job I love are the
best for me in the long run.
Happy for successes. And just overall happiness, both for
myself and others. One of my closest college friends and her boyfriend, also a
close friend, recently got engaged. I am beyond excited for them and even
screamed when she told me the news. Another friend and her husband are
expecting their first child. It is strange to think a few years ago (okay so
ten years ago) she was drinking Malibu passion fruit lily of the valley perfume
flavored pink colored rum and wearing juicy sweatpants and now she will be a
mother. I would like to acknowledge when others are successful, and when I
personally achieve a success.
Donate monthly. Whether it is clothes, money, or time, I hope
to give a little back to the community each month
Save. Save time, save
money, and save my sanity. Be organized, don’t procrastinate. Spend wisely,
save smartly. Know when to fight, when to give in, and when to walk away. (***I
will never give in to my cousin and his wife phonetically spelling their daughter’s
name and then jacking MY nickname which has been in use for TWENTY YEARS and
then claiming they didn’t know AND STILL USING SAID NICKNAME she is 3, pick a
new one.)
Travel. Boston, D.C., Texas? Hopefully South America or
Europe as well. Minus the lack of body awareness thing most people have, I love to
travel.
Educate. Maybe I will go back to school; maybe I will take a
continuing education class. I will certainly continue to abuse my access to
nytimes.com and keep on googling the absolute tits out of any and all questions
that pop into my mind. Learning from others is great as well. The twitter
machine is a great way to find people you totally want to be friends with in
real life while facebook is a great reminder of all those people from high
school and college you are so glad you aren’t friends with in real life.
Healthy body. Does taco dip taste good? Yes. Is it healthy?
Not really. Am I unhealthy? Yes, just a little bit. I am thinking of cutting
down on my candy intake, limiting the taco dip to very special occasions, and
incorporating a little more exercise into my routine. I should also probably
get a physical since it has been 7 years since my last one.
Laugh. Laugh often, laugh well, laugh at myself, laugh with
others, and laugh until I cry. Hopefully 2013 will bring tears in the form of
laughter instead of the sadness of 2012.
Closure. There are a few things that ended in 2012 that are
not completely over. Hopefully I can move forward instead of wallowing in the
past.
Bag. I need a durable, tote everywhere, all season, handbag.
Seeking clean lines, NO visible logos, twenty year plus utility.
Happy 2013-ing!